For what it's worth, I don't think you're being a troll or trolling (I do, however, tend to give people the benefit of the doubt more often than I should and end up in a troll loop, so please don't prove me wrong here!).

Restaurants, THIS is how you handle a server who has been the victim of bigotry

So, the New Jersey waitress who got stiffed for being a lesbian (or really, for just looking like one, since the family just decided to assume) has been getting donations. And, unlike other restaurants *cough*Red Lobster*cough* who have fired servers for venting about bigotry, the one she works for is matching all…